a turning point? that’s what recently happened in my life - when i
quit my official political duties, after having been a member of the
state government for 24 years, plus 11 years of being governor. in all
these years my schedule had been pretty tight. it was a stressful job,
lots and lots of work, with many conflicts to solve, including difficult
questions, needs, fears and worries. but i had great people who supported
me, and i did my part of the work with vigour until i left in
oktober 2005. thank god, my decision was accepted and respected. at
this time i was 67 years old, and ready to start into a new life - without
being run by my highly competent office organizers with a meticulously
structured daily schedule.
now in the mornings i’m able to think about: what is going to happen
today? what are you looking forward to? what could you avoid?
what can you make short? what could you prolong? where can you
learn something new? and in the evenings before falling asleep - i’m
watching my ‘internal movie of the day’ - acknowledging that there
was something familiar, but something new and exciting as well. suddenly
i realize, that i can learn. after primarily ‘functioning’ for many
decades - i am learning again. learning to develop and explore my
creative sides.
playing the piano for my whole lifetime was fine, i rarely had enough
time for it. now i play with a completely different intensity and inspiration.
it’s quite similar with painting. somehow i always used to make little
sketches, and suddenly i realize, that i’m able to do water colours,
curate an exhibition and sell my art - a completely new experience.
these are wonderful stories.
having time for my grand children - this is something that only
works, if you really take time for it. time to be open for them, neither
holding big speeches, nor imposing instructions or advice on them.
time for listening: what do they really want? what do they consider
beautiful? what do they dream of? then - one sun after the other begins
to shine - such a little child discovering her old, loving grandfather
and developing trust and nearness. when our grandchildren are
visiting here in our place, and one of these little hands is finding its
way into my hand and holding on to it - that’s indiscribably beautiful.
such moments leave me with a feeling of happiness - that’s way better
than being governor for 20 years
