once on the night train to barcelona, i remember being alone in the
compartment. in south of france, at night, pouring rain outside - i
opened the window, and held my head into the rain. being dripping
wet, rain flying into my face - that was such a moment of happiness.
it’s an enormous feeling of joy - to simply travel through the night like
this. to see the sea, sit on the shores of the ocean, playing the flute, or
not - that’s another moment of happiness.
from early on, i had this deep longing for america. at night in barcelona,
when these huge passenger ships left the harbour, i always sat
there, and enjoyed their departure: the music, the lights, the melting
of the ship into the width of the horizon. then suddenly i was in rotterdam
myself - to travel with a holland-american-liner to new york.
first of all i spent one day walking back and forth along the side of the
ship - almost unable to believe that i would be going to america on
this ship. how could such good luck happen to me? boarding the next
day, standing on deck at the rail, listening to the farewell music, then
suddenly feeling that vibration, the ship starts to move, the sound of
the horn, people on the pier getting smaller and sea gulls whizzing
around, joining us - these are incredible moments of happiness.
well, but after one week of rough sea and of being seasick - i was so
happy when the skyline of new york appeared in front of us. then,
seeing something the first time for real, that i only knew from photographies
in books - really being there - that’s another moment of
happiness.
that’s how i found happiness and some kind of independence in my
youth. but as soon as one has ‘arrived’ somewhere, everything might
still turn out differently. to have a profession, an occupation that’s
fulfilling and makes sense - is one of the main tasks. in the search for
this ‘calling’, dissatisfaction can be quite inspiring, and then the discovery
of what you really want to do - that’s again another moment of
happiness.
so, these are moments of happiness. caused by the awareness of the
transient nature of life - a moment becomes even more precious, and
joyful - with its uniqueness in mind. usually each of these moments
is the result of a long path - but sometimes happiness just comes as a
gift.
